Tips For Buying Your First Adult Toy

Tips For Buying Your First Adult Toy

Most people, even those who are happily in a relationship, will have some sort of adult toy hidden away somewhere. This is nothing to be ashamed of and can actually be a great investment. There are plenty of toys to choose from so if you are new to the world of adult toys, you may not know where to start. Here are some tips to help you during your search and buying process.

Who Will Use It

The first thing to think about is who will be using the toy. Most people typically think of adult toys as something only used for masturbation but that is not necessarily true. Toys can be a great way to add a little something to your masturbation sessions whether you are single or away from your partner for some reason but you can also use toys with your partner. Some examples of partner toys would be a cock ring to make him last longer or a small vibrator he can place on your clit while you have sex.

Vibration Or Penetration

If you are looking at sex toys for women, you need to consider whether you want vibration, penetration or both. This depends completely on your personal preferences but if you plan to use the toy during intercourse, a good option would be a smaller vibrator. If you plan on using the toy by yourself, then decide whether you want to do the work of moving a dildo or would prefer the reduced effort of a vibrator.


You also need to consider what type of material you want your toy to be made of. Some people prefer to go with a material that feels like real flesh while others prefer ones that are easy to clean. One of the most popular options is silicone and that is because this material is simple to clean and you can easily warm it up (or cool it down) if you want. You also need to decide what size dildo or vibrator you want and remember that bigger isn’t always better. If you want a toy for anal play, make sure that it has a flare so it won’t get stuck.

Buying It

If you are buying your first adult toy, the actual process of buying it can be embarrassing for some people. If you don’t know quite what you want, it is a good idea to go to a store and ask for advice. If you’re too embarrassed by this, however, then you can easily shop online and have your toy delivered in discreet packaging with no one the wiser.

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