Preparation for anal sex depends upon getting yourself cleaned up and allowing yourself sufficient time to get used to the idea of anal penetration.
Making sure your anus is prepared and clean is the best way to prepare,” Saynt told INSIDER. “Mentally, you want to prepare yourself and allow yourself to accept this pleasure. The more mentally prepared you are for anal sex, the more likely you’ll relax and fully experience the benefits of prostate stimulation.
Your partner is onto something! Anal play is safe, and you can make sure that your experience is squeaky clean, too. But the best way to learn if you like it is to explore it for yourself.
If you’re worried about germs, I recommend to start by purchasing a Fleet enema from your nearest drugstore. Fill it with a little bit of water from the shower. Insert and then expel slightly in and around your anus, repeating it until you feel like you’re clear.