Not reaching orgasm doesn’t necessarily mean there’s anything wrong with you. If anything, it just means that whatever you’re doing isn’t quite working for you.
There is no “correct” way to masturbate, of course, but some people may not be masturbating in a way that is right for them. I suggested getting to know your body better, experimenting with vibrators, and looking into websites that explore ways to enhance women’s pleasure (like MedAmour), all of which might be able to lead to a better sexual response.
Thanks for the question! It can be so frustrating to feel yourself right on the edge of something awesome, only to wind up feeling like you’ve blocked yourself. Orgasms can feel easily distractible! There are a number of possible reasons why you might be feeling blocked in that particular moment. I think it’s most useful to think about your blockages outside of the bedroom, to minimize getting distracted when you’re with your partner in the moment.
You can read more about it at: https://www.bustle.com/articles/108128-why-cant-i-come-6-reasons-your-orgasm-can-get-blocked-what-to-do-about
It can be so frustrating to feel yourself right on the edge of something awesome, only to wind up feeling like you’ve blocked yourself. Orgasms can feel easily distractible! There are a number of possible reasons why you might be feeling blocked in that particular moment. I think it’s most useful to think about your blockages outside of the bedroom, to minimize getting distracted when you’re with your partner in the moment. https://www.bustle.com/articles/108128-why-cant-i-come-6-reasons-your-orgasm-can-get-blocked-what-to-do-about
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