I love my boyfriend. Our sex life is horrible. He smokes and I hate the smell of cigarettes on his breath and always avoid kissing him. His kisses also turn me off because he insists on shoving his tongue down my throat. I hate that. I prefer soft kisses on the lips and like the tongue only on my clit, pussy and any other part of my body. I have faked orgasms for so long because I just want it to be over. I am afraid to hurt his feelings. I want to stay with him, maybe even marry him and have a family in the future. Should I just rip off the band aid and hurt his feelings now for a better sex life?
Well you shouldn’t worry about his feelings as he has the habits which obviously you are not looking for in a relationship while it is wrong of you to tell him to change for you as it is his own decision so i think you should leave him and see how he acts. Maybe he changes and becomes the guy you want or there are many fishes in the sea!
Ask him if he can leave this habits and you will marry him if he does. Do let him know that you don’t him to change or anything but your habits are harmful for himself so you cannot spend a future with a guy with not so good habits. If he loves you he will listen.
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