Your interest in anal sex might have been piqued by seeing it in porn, but it’s best not to use porn as a model.
“Anal sex in porn is mostly rough, and since it’s associated with domination, many times in the movies it’s theatrically ‘forced’ on the submissive (bottom). In my coaching practice, I’ve interviewed many male and female clients that were watching hard anal porn, or were turned on by the imagination of forcing or being forced into the anal sex, but in reality, most of them would never do it,” Holmgren told INSIDER.
A porn scene rarely reveals the rigorous preparation that goes into creating it, so nothing you see in a porn flick should be considered representative of any kind of sexual activity. Anal sex is no exception.
What you also don’t see in porn is the hours of prep (with plugs, beads or dildos) the actors have done, so what you see in porn is very quick.In real life you’ll want to go much slower and use toys and fingers to stretch the anus before penetration with a penis.
