This side-by-side position has your partner pressed tightly against your back and butt and thighs, so it’s super intimate and leaves you feeling connected, Jill McDevitt, PhD, resident sexologist at sex toy company CalExotics, tells Health. “This positioning will also keep your vulva flush against your partner’s pubic bone, so that there isn’t a gap between the bodies, which can make the already small penis feel smaller,” she says. Also hot: With his hands free, he can reach around to play with your breasts and clitoris, or grab your hips and take charge of the thrusting.
