If it hurts, then you need more lube and “warming up” (rimjob perhaps, or have regular sex first?). You also need to be full on horny. A couple of my ex-girlfriends actually genuinely preferred it to regular sex once they got into it, and started wanting it all the time (whats a boy to do?) so don’t give up just yet – it may take a bit of practice for you to figure out how exactly its going to work, but once you do…
