The Art Of Giving A Blowjob

The Art Of Giving A Blowjob

Oral sex is becoming more and more popular as it can be incredibly pleasurable for both parties involved but doesn’t provide the risk of becoming pregnant. The thing is that all men have slightly different preferences when it comes to stimulation so what feels great for one man may not feel as good for someone else. The good news is that there are some things that all men like and these are what make up the art of giving a blowjob. Some parts of the process are fairly straightforward while others are not but when done right, it can be pleasurable for both parties.

Practice Safe Sex

The most important thing to remember before giving a blowjob is to practice safe sex. It is true that you cannot get pregnant from giving a blowjob (unless it ends in penetration), but that doesn’t mean that it is impossible to get STIs from the act. There is a low risk of getting HIV from oral sex, but it is still possible. Other STIs that can be transferred via oral sex including fungal infections and hepatitis B. You can also spread mouth infections such as cold sores. Because of this risk, it is important to always use a condom when giving a blowjob to someone who hasn’t been recently checked for STIs.

Use Sensitive Areas

A lot of people think that giving a blowjob is all about focusing on the penis and while that area is sensitive, the recipient of the blowjob will enjoy themselves a lot more if you focus on other sensitive areas as well. The most important parts of the penis itself to pay attention to are the head (which is the round, smooth part at the tip) and the frenulum (which is the small flap found on the head’s underside). When giving a blowjob, you should be careful not to ignore the other areas of the genitals as the testicles and perineum (found between the testicles and buttocks).

Pay Attention

As mentioned earlier, every man is slightly different and this means that they will have different preferences when it comes to blowjobs. Some things are true for almost all men, such as not wanting any contact with teeth and preferring a sucking movement that includes some bobbing. Despite these similarities, some men will find certain areas more sensitive and enjoy having them touched during a blowjob while others will prefer that you only stimulate the penis. Because of the variations, it is important that you always pay attention to their body cues so you know what they are enjoying and what they are not and adjust accordingly.

Involve Your Hands

Many people think that every man wants their partner to be able to take their entire penis into their mouth. While this is true for some men, the majority do not care as the base of the shaft is not that sensitive. They will however want stimulation on the entire penis and one of the best ways to do this without gagging is to use your hands. You can place them at the base of the shaft so the combination of your hands and mouth can cover the entire penis, giving maximum pleasure. In the blow job video lesson, you can learn more tips & tricks.

Should You Swallow?

Some women don’t mind swallowing while others hate the idea of it. The fact of the matter is that there is no right answer of whether you should spit or swallow when giving a blowjob; it all comes down to your personal preference. If you know you do not want to taste the semen, be sure to warn your partner in advance so he knows not to cum in your mouth. If you don’t mind the taste but don’t want to swallow, have some tissues on hand to spit into. You should never feel bad about spitting as this will in no way affect the physical enjoyment of the blowjob.

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